Stars explained: * A production of no real merit with failings in all areas. ** A production showing evidence of not enough time or effort, or even talent, and which never breathes any real life into the piece – or a show lumbered with a terrible script. *** A good enjoyable show which might have some small flaws but has largely achieved what it set out to do.**** An excellent show which shows a great deal of work and stage craft with no noticeable or major flaws.***** A four star show which has found that extra bit of magic which lifts theatre to another plane.
Half stars fall between the ratings

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Richard Delahaye as André has no idea who the woman played by Sandra Haynes is who is being spoken to by his daughter Anne, played  by Sharon Clayton. She's certainly not the carer Laura!

The Father

Highbury Theatre Centre

*****

Every so often along comes a performance that reminds you what a magical place theatre can be and Richard Delahaye provides such a moment, he is simply magnificent as André in Florian Zeller’s brilliant play.

It is a play about old age, the fate of all those who are fortunate enough to reach it – and a fate whose only advantage, at times, is that it is better than the alternative.

André is in his 70s in a hopeless fight for his independence and sanity against the ravages of time . . . and dementia.

Dementia. It is the fear of everyone heading into their twilight years. The young forget what you ask them to do because their minds are full of so many, far more interesting things. The old forget things because . . . well they just do. And then there are those lost to dementia . . .  remember Shakespeare’s final words in his seven ages of man . . . sans everything.

It is a condition that touches a nerve or stirs a memory of so many of the audience, but the play is not some sort of study or examination of dementia, this is theatre, we are invited to experience dementia, live it from inside what has become of André’s mind.

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André charms Leah Fennell's carer Laura, the pretty one, with Anne looking on

On the face of it, it could be harrowing and grim, but it’s not. It is compelling, even gripping theatre. We see the world through André’s eyes, a world confused, constantly changing, leaving him, and us, bewildered, with strangers arriving and disappearing in the flat.

The play sets out to confound us. Instead of following a linear narrative, beginning, middle, end, we are left to work out what is real, what is now, what is then. We are given a mystery to solve.

The play is set over several years, or maybe months or weeks. It might just be yesterday and today, or maybe just this morning or even just now in real time . . . André keeps losing his watch, or it keeps being stolen, so he can’t keep track of time any more, so neither can we.

When we open he is living in a flat in Paris and we discover has just upset yet another carer to the point she is refusing to return. She is the third carer to have been driven away and his daughter Anne is at her wit’s end.

It is an emotional performance from Sharon Clayton who is desperately trying to balance the love for her father, making sure he is cared for, and the equal demands of her own life and work and her relationship with her partner Pierre in the shape of Ron Parker. Pierre seems to have a less than easy relationship with André.

Anne is on a hiding to nothing, the demands and needs of her father increasing to a point where balance is impossible to achieve, while André’s declarations he is managing just fine on his own, are ringing more and more hollow.

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Roles reversed: a daughter comforting her once strong father with  Ron Parker's Pierre in the background

Hovering around we have Alan Groucott as . . . well, as some bloke who appears, a complete stranger, who claims to be Anne’s husband, or something like that, and Sandra Haynes as . . . well, she says she is Anne, or did she say she was Laura the carer who came yesterday? No, that was Leah Fennell as Laura, the pretty one, she was the one who came yesterday, not the new one who came today.

André told Laura, the pretty one, how he used to be a dancer, even giving a demonstration . . . or was he in a circus? Anne said he was an engineer.

There is tension amid the mystery as well. For instance, is Pierre, both of them in this case, secretly abusing André when Anne is not there? And is Anne living in Paris or London? Then there is Elise, André’s other daughter. Laura looks a lot like her, don’t you think? Now why does Elise never visit and it’s a long time since André heard from her? And whose flat is it? And what happened to the chap with the chicken?

Delahaye becomes André, every hesitant moment, desperately fumbling for words, for recollection, for sanity. It is a huge part, a lot to remember and even more to forget, and as anyone who has been close to a sufferer will know, it is oh so painfully accurate. There is no ranting or raving, he is not a doddery old man whose mind is away with the fairies, he even mocks the very idea that anyone could even consider him a touch loony. On the face of it he is normal, battling an ever more hostile world.

After all, he still sees himself as master of his own universe, but it is a world ever shrinking and changing around him, the familiar has faded and he is no longer in control. He is still, as Laura declared, charming, still funny, at times, still amiable, if a little infuriating, still Anne’s father. When as his twilight fades towards night and he says tearfully “I feel as if I’m losing all my leaves – one by one” your heart goes out to him. He ends his telling soliloquy with “When the last leaf falls  - what will be left of me?”

It is a moving moment in a moving and emotionally powerful play which mirrors André’s disorientation forcing us to experience the same confusion and frustration. The reality of one moment becoming the uncertainty of the next. Even the structure is fragmented into short sometimes connected, sometimes not, scenes along timelines that may or may not exist.

There are echoes of King Lear in the story; both Lear and André struggle with their loss of control, confusion, and perceived betrayal of a daughter, both make a final speech of resignation about their own frailities.

Both are once strong fathers becoming vulnerable as their minds deteriorate, both blurring the fine line between reality and illusion.

Malcolm Robertshaw’s set is functional rather than designed to provide an extra, inanimate character as we have seen created in many productions, which was a missed opportunity, and it has set changes carried out by faceless figures which could benefit by being slicker to help with momentum, which no doubt will happen as the run continues.

The Father has a strong cast with father and daughter in particular providing deeply moving moments. It is a wonderful, immersive, very human story which in some way or another affects us all, challenging our perceptions and tugging at our emotions. Theatre at its best. Directed by Claire Armstrong Mills The Father will be seeking reality to 09-03-25.

Roger Clarke

25-02-25 

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